You can't make someone love you.

You can love someone with all your being, but you can't make someone love you back in that same fashion. 

Maybe it's you, maybe it's not. 

But even if you're the pretty, smart, funny,kind: there is always going to be someone who won't see that. 

That's not your fault. Because you are all of those things and someone will see you for you, don't get caught up on that one who was to blind to see how special you are. 

It's ok, cry , scream, tell the world it's unfair but eventually move on. Pick yourself up, hold your head high, and find someone else.

Someone who will appreciate you. 

Someone who will see you for you and will love you. 

There's nothing worse than hoping and trying to make someone love you, because it's a pointless game. You won't win. It leaves you hurt and broken. 

It crushes your spirit it leaves you feeling worthless and drained.

Some fights are not worth fighting. 

Embrace the light: Let go of the Negative, Bring in the Positive

It may sound easy to let go of the negative and take in the positive.
Its not, its so hard to get out of that negative thinking to the point it consumes you and takes over your life. Bad things are gonna happen, and if its not one thing its gonna be ten other things. Life gives us obstacles for reasons we may never know. But our life path determines how we deal with those obstacles. Now I have had my fair share of obstacles in my life, and its never gonna stop. But we have to push through them even when we feel like its never ending. Its so common to focus on the bad things that happen to us, or the negative traits of some one else, or even yourself.
We are our hardest critics.
If you look in the mirror after your shower and you tell yourself:
I am worthless.
I am fat.
I hate myself.
I will never be loved.
You are doing it wrong, because if that was someone else in my life telling me that, there is no way they would last a day. So why do we do it to ourselves?
Be positive and positive will flow.
I am Kind.
I am worth alot.
I am strong.
I am beautiful inside and out.
And I will not punish myself any longer.

Life is such a beautiful thing, done waste it hating yourself and being negative. Embrace the light and shine.

Self - Love

Love is this powerful thing that can lift you up and make you feel like the world is beautiful, or it can destroy you. But the kind of love that matters the most is is self-love. When love destroys you, no one is going to be able to pick you up and fix it, like you can. You cant date someone else to get over the kind of hurt and pain that you are going through. The only person on this earth that is going to love you unconditionally and completely is yourself. Every flaw, every pound, every bad habit, the only one that will love you no matter is going to be yourself. Being in love with yourself is the best thing you can do, you will learn so much more about who you are than you will about any partner you may have.  You have to love yourself before before you try love someone else, because you will depend on that person for happiness, for joy , for love. No one, should ever control you. Control your self-worth, your happiness,and your life. Its hard, i wont lie to you. But you have to do it. You have to love yourself, because when no one else does, you need to be able to care of yourself. So many people fall into this pit of self loathing because their partner left them, they cheated on them, they destroyed them. The problem isn't you, the problem is them. Because even though we cant fully define love, i know for one thing that is not love. That is most certainly not love. You can sit around and cry , and cry and that's fine. But eventually you need to pick yourself up and live. Because its your life, your are worth more than that. Whether you see it now, or you see later. Its true. You define your worth, no one else.

You can love someone so much, and give them everything you have and if they still walk out of your life, let them go. And shut that door behind them, because they might realize that whatever they are chasing after is not as good as the love you showed them. Its not that you aren't good enough, its that they are too blind to see that you are worth everything.  And you deserve everything you want. If you have a partner that you try and try and try to make happy and it seems like nothing is working. You change your habits to make that person happy, you become someone you don't recognize. And that all your work and effort and love is taken for granted, walk away. Do not change yourself to accompany someone else, because if they aren't going to do the same. Its not worth it. You cant change someone, you cant fix someone, if they don't want to change that's on them, you move on and be happy by yourself. I would rather be happy and alone than feel run down and worthless and with someone that doesn't love me.