We look past there flaws and only see what we want to see, but why? We are so scared to be alone that we will make some seem so perfect for us when they are everything we don't want.
I always try to look for someone different, but in reality they all are the same, some worse than others.
Stubborn
Self Centered
Narcissistic
Emotionally unavailable
Liars
Cheats
Charismatic
Manipulative
It seems crazy but taking a 6 month break to really look at the type of people I get myself involved with helps.
No one I have involved myself with in the past year was worth dating, being involved with or honestly being friends with.
I notice this afterwards of course.
So now I know what I want, and i will not settle for less
1. A MAN
I cant even stress this enough, no matter how old they are they seem to still act like little boys with fancy shiny ass toys. Childish, focused on short term things. They see me as a girl, no I do not play those stupid girl games. I am a woman, and I don't have time for back and forth bull crap.
2. HONEST
I don't think I've been involved with one honest guy this year, they come off as honest. " I have nothing to hide" BULLSHIT. A white little lie is still a lie. Honesty is the most important factor in a relationship and if a relationship starts off with lies it will end on lies.
3. HAS GOALS
Short term. Long term. Doesn't matter but if your 30 years old and your goal is to buy the new Nikes, probably not the best.
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